The Five Lessons of Friendship

While 2020 drained all the energy out of people’s spirit, 2021 has provided the refuel that many of us needed.

April is the month that I want to celebrate and remember because I witnessed many acts of bravery, unity and kindness at a time where it’s needed more than ever. I also reflected on my past and how I’ve grown with it. This is the month where I cheer and celebrate those closest to me: my friends.

We begin with April 7th when my friend, Camy, announced that he had got a job. This to me wasn’t a minor achievement as COVID has made it difficult on both the young and old to find a career path. Camy shares his humour and comedy when it is needed most. He can lift the mood when people are down. His hard work is never ignored by me. I want to celebrate his commitment and effort. He never gave up and, eventually, his efforts paid off. He taught me patience, even when it seems impossible.

Social media can be a dark place but on the morning of the16th of April, I woke up to the strength of young people breaking society’s standards. My friend Tee awoke that morning and chose power as she posted her story of recovery. Tee’s greatest asset is her loyalty and her dedication to support others. She decided to tell her story and prove to the world that she is so much more than what society paints women as. The pressure of fitting into society can be difficult, especially for teenagers, but with time, self-love and support, she chose to be herself. Tee taught me to be my own friend, even when I’m not at my best.

My long term friend Adam is somebody who has walked with me through life and has never given up on me; not even once. Adam takes care of his friends and treats them as family. He has an open ear and offers a shoulder to cry on whenever you need him. He fights for you when you need a helping hand. I view him as a brother and trust him with my life. This April I want to celebrate long-term relationships and the long-lasting friendship I am lucky to have. Adam taught me that friends are chosen family and that family never leave each other behind.

I have been on a journey of self-discovery for a while and during the times when I need insight and advice on things I don't understand, I turn to Daisy. Daisy is somebody who will never judge you for who you are. I identify within the LGBTQ+ community and when I need to communicate my thoughts and feelings, I know I can go to her to speak freely. She’s wise and looks for peace when tension runs high. I’ve decided to celebrate the ability to be yourself. However you identify, whoever you love, why be anybody else when you can be you? Daisy taught me that being open and out is okay and that friends also provide safety and comfort.

With assessments around the corner for school students, I have been preparing and studying and when I look for help regarding my education, sitting right in front of me in history, is Molly. Molly is younger than me but her maturity doesn’t suggest it in the slightest. When I’m stressed, she reminds me that everything is okay. Her intelligence is unbeatable and her talent in music always leaves me in awe. She’s able to bring out my inner child after working weekly. Molly taught me that hard work will always pay off and that support is nothing more than a text away.

If it’s true that soulmates do exist in this world, then I know for certain that I have found mine. My love for these people goes on for infinity and I want them to know that I’m proud of their achievements, big or small. For me, I want to celebrate happiness. A door has opened for 2021; a door for opportunity, success, freedom and growth.

I can happily take the next step towards my future knowing my chosen family will walk with me.